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Summary

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Mnemonic

That which you resist, will persist, but as you learn to skillfully blend, the point of conflict will soon find its end. When you blend, the point of conflict has to end. Because you defend, it doesn’t end.

Problem

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Solution

As you begin to more quickly notice when you are feeling defensive in response to another, you will simultaneously begin to notice that the problem and/or, the person that you’re having the conflict with, will start to dig in their heels and even push back on you. When you understand that your very first and most powerful maneuver is to work toward understanding the problem or the other person’s perspective, then you are on your way to defusing the conflict. Both problems and people have a natural affection for being understood and seen from the perspective that they want to be seen from. What does it really cost you to see it from another’s point of view? Perhaps it is only the fear that if you can understand and even empathize with the other person’s point of view, you might forget own point of view that keeps you stuck in a combative stance toward life.